Hazrat Amman Jan - An Inspiration for Us All — Page 189
189 21) Never be disrespectful or abusive to people that are in one's employment. 22) Hadrat Amman Jan ra never left the house without a few essentials. These included an umbrella, a walking stick/knife, some money and a watch. 23) Hadrat Amman Jan ra said that a woman's " beauty " (ie her value), is based upon her piety and her good household management. 24) Hadrat Amman Jan ra stated , “ Modesty is part of a woman ’ s beauty. ” 25) Hadrat Amman Jan ra once advised a lady how to win her husband's heart. She suggested that; she develop good domestic skills, cook well, manage her household well, give her children a good moral upbringing an d take care to observe the obligatory prayers. 26) Hadrat Amman Jan ra never interfered in her daughters - in - law' running of their households, nor did she ever complain about them to her sons. 27) Hadrat Amman Jan ra said that at times of simultaneous rain and sunshine, Allah Almighty is more receptive to our prayers. 28) Hadrat Amman Jan ra once reassured her daughter , Hadrat Nawwab Mubaraka Begum ra , that after her " ‘ iddat" period 109 she could resume her normal dress, wear nice clothes and makeup as usual. 109 A four - months and ten days ’ period of waiting for a widow.