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152 the obedient women. ’ (Kishti Nuh, Ruhani Khaza’in, Vol. 19, pp. 80 - 81) ( Address delivered to ladies on 3 June 2004 at Jalsa Salana Holland. Published in Al Fazl Internation al 22 July 2005) Complete Faithfulness to Husband and Motivation to engage in Istig h far Addressing Ahmadi ladies at Jalsa Salan a Germany 2003 Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be his Helper) said: ‘ Some women have a tendency to create huge fuss when times get hard , for instance if the husband loses his job or there is loss in business and prosperity is diminished. They moan about the situation, quarrel and fight with the husband, tell him off, make demands of him. Such actions do not result well. If the husband is even a little bit weak , he promptly takes a loan to somehow cater for the wife’s desires. Debt is such a quagmire that one simply goes on sinking in it. When bad times are faced a wife should become the helper of her husband with complete sincerity and sh ould try and get by as best as possible. ’