Domestic Issues and Their Solutions — Page 153
153 Huzoor e Anwer added: ‘ Women who create fuss over small matters should keep this in mind and do استغفار Istighfar (seek forgiveness from Allah). Hazrat ibn e Abbas narrates that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) said: ‘Fire was shown to me and I observed that majority of those entering it were women. The reason for this is tha t they perpetrate unbelief. It was asked, ‘do they disbelieve in Allah?’ The Prophet replied, ‘no. They are ungrateful. If you have been good and benevolent towards any one of them all your life and then she sees something in you which is not of her liking , she will say, ‘I have never received any good from you. ’ ( (Sahih Bukhari, Kitabul Eman, Babu Kufranel Asheer wa kufren doona Kufren fihe) Facing Difficult Times with Prayers, Alms - giving, Repentance and Istighfar Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be his Helper) advised ladies regarding family problems and said: ‘Some women develop complaints due to the situation with the in - laws and they show impatience. Sometimes when the pain becomes too much their reaction also intensifies to the extent that they even