Arba'in — Page 121
ARBAʻIN NUMBER THREE کرتے وقت فرشتوں نے تیری مدد کی۔ آپ کے ساتھ انگریزوں کا نرمی کے ساتھ ہاتھ تھا۔ اسی طرف خدا تعالیٰ تھا جو آپ تھے۔ آسمان پر دیکھنے والوں کو ایک رائی برابر غم نہیں ہوتا۔ یہ طریق اچھا نہیں اس سے ، روک دیا جائے مسلمانوں کے لیڈر عبد الکریم کو۔ خُذُوا الرِّفْقَ الرِّفْقَ فَإِنَّ الرِّفْقَ رَأْسُ الْخَيْرَاتِ. نرمی کرو۔ نرمی کرو کہ تمام نیکیوں کا سر نرمی ہے 121 God has determined to exalt your name and to illuminate it greatly in the universe. I shall demonstrate My light and shall raise you with a demonstration of My power. Many thrones have descended from heaven, but your throne has been set at the highest level. Angels helped you at the time of your meeting with your enemies. The British dealt kindly with you. God was on the side on which you were. Those who look to heaven suffer no grief whatsoever. This is not a good way. ʻAbdul Karim, the leader of the Muslims, should be told not to pursue it. [Arabic] 'Be compassion- ate;1* be compassionate, for compassion is the principal virtue. ' [Urdu] 'Be compassionate; be compassionate, for 1. This ilham contains guidance for the whole Jama'at to treat their wives with kindness and courtesy. Your wives are not your slaves. As a matter of fact, nikāḥ [marriage] is a covenant between man and woman. Therefore, strive not to be false to your covenant, God Almighty says in the Holy Quran: وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ Meaning that: And consort with them in kindness [Sūrah an-Nisa', 4:20]. And it is mentioned in a hadith: خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ بِأَهْلِه - meaning that the best among you is he who is best towards his wife [Sunan Tirmidhi, Abwāb al-Manāqib, Bābun fi faal Āzwāj an-Nabiyy șallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam, Hadith 3895]. Therefore, be good to your wives both spiritually and physically. Keep praying for them, and avoid divorce. A person who is hasty in divorce is sinful in the eyes of God. Do not hasten to break like a dirty vessel that which God has affixed together. Author