Paradise Under Your Feet — Page 41
Chapter 3: Toddler and Preschool Years 41 explain about Allah Almighty ’ s attribute of Rahmaniyyat (Graciousness) and to give thanks; walks in the park or other outings can teach toddlers to appreciate the beauty of Allah ’ s creation. When children ask for a toy or some other object, this becomes an opportunity to teach them to ask Allah for that thing, and then, when it is provided for them, to teach them to be grateful to Allah Almighty. At this stage, children can also be introduced to the Holy Prophet (saw) by telling them stories about the life of the Holy Prophet (saw) and how we follow his example. Children can be encouraged to perform small actions in the way the Holy Prophet (saw) did; e. g. saying “ Bismillah ” before any action, and eating with the right hand etc. Salat and Holy Qur ’ an Establishment of congregational Salat in the home is essential to create awareness of the importance of Salat in children, even when they are toddlers. When parents and family perform Salat in congregation regularly, the children learn that Salat is an important part of family life and many toddlers join in and perform Sajdah (prostration) with great delight in their own way. They also want their own cap and scarf and their own place on the prayer rug. At this age, mothers can encourage them to sit quietly while the family offers Salat and teach some simple etiquettes of Salat e. g. not to make a noise or walk or play in front of those praying. Holding the child while praying, so that the Salat of others is not disturbed, teaches the child the importance of Salat. In the same way, parent ’ s regular recitation of the Holy Qur ’ an in the morning, and especially the mother ’ s recitation, creates familiarity with the Holy Qur ’ an and is an important aspect of children ’ s training. Toddlers will sense that the Holy Qur ’ an is an important book and will enjoy a melodious recitation. Whenever the child is