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223 by o nly having daughters, and he is patient with them, they will be a barrier from the Fire for him. ’ (Sunanu Tirmizi , Kitabul Birre wa sillah, Babu ma ja’a fi - nafaqati ‘alal banat wal akhawat) There is no individual in the world who does not commit small mis takes and sins and there is no individual who does not wish to come in the refuge of Allah the Exalted. Certainly, everyone wishes for His refuge. It is glad - tidings for those who have daughters that a believer will come in the refuge of Allah the Exalted because of his daughters. It is the sign of a believer to find solutions to relevant problems that may arise, to bear up when faced with several issues because of daughters and never to let the daughters know about it in any way and to not castigate mother s because they had daughters. And it is because of this that Allah the Exalted states that all these matters b ecome a barrier from the Fire. ’ ( Friday sermon delivered on 19 November 2010 at Baitul Futuh, London) Roles of Fr iends of Both Parties Friends of both parties also play a big role in disagreements between husband and wife and marriage problems. Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be his Helper) said in one of his Friday sermons: