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210 everything the situation has gone awry. Indeed, the potential groom’s religious standing should also be considered. The circumstances are the same everywhere. The world has become increasingly materialistic. Matches should not be decided unless one is personally satisfied and they should not be merely based on wealth. Many such relationships turn sour an d become a source of extreme distress. If a decision of arranging a girl’s marriage is based solely on worldly aspects, then it would be like distancing her from faith. There are many such instances where girls have not only ended up severing ties with Jam a’at but with their families as well. The in - laws do not even allow the girls to meet t he i r parents. Thus, one should not arrange marriages based on financial and worldly status alone. Such matters must always be decided after offering supplications to All ah. Similarly, any such instances where moral upbringing of children is neglected, it is as if those children have been murdered. Thus, it is crucial to sincerely reflect upon the moral upbringing of children and to guide them. Women should spend time in t heir homes. Apart from unavoidable cases, there is no need for women to go out to work when the children require parents’ supervision and care. If you must work, then wait till the children have grown up. There are some mothers who make sacrifices for thei r children despite the fact that they are professionals. Some are doctors