Domestic Issues and Their Solutions — Page 15
15 surroundings also inf luence matters. Since your foundation will be up on righteousness, God Almighty will save those who abide by righteousness from the attacks of satanic inclinatio ns. If husband and w ife abide by righteousness and build confidence in each other, no matter how close or persuasive the inciter is, the husband or the wife will respond to them by informing them that they know their spouse well and the husband or the wife will respond to the inciter by saying they must have misunderstood something and the husband or wife will immediately offer to resolve the matter! If the person who takes some news regarding one party to the other party is honest t he y will never say , ‘ do not mention my name when you ask your husband or wife, I have not told you this so that you may go and question your spouse. ’ If someone says something and then asks for it to not be communicated further, you should know then that t he y are trying to create s plits in the relat ionship and are creating distances and are using falsehood. A sympathetic person who wishes to make things better will always say something which will strengthen the relationship between husband and wife. Both hus band and wife should always strive to abid e by righteousness, and pray for the relationship to grow stronger and have regard for the respective relatives. If they hear something, no matter if it is from someone very close to them , both husband and wife should clear it all u p by talking to each oth er lovingly and affection ately so that the person telling lies is exposed. If such matters are allowed to fester