Woman in Islam — Page 9
9 Unfortunately, the West no longer considers chastity a virtue, indeed it has become a reproach. Experimental living together and promiscuity have become the norm. Perversion and sensuality, inside and outside wedlock, are deemed the true purpose and object of sex. Woman has been degraded into a mere instrument of sexual indulgence. According to Islam, the relationship between husband and wife should be characterized by grace. The Holy Quran directs: “Consort with them graciously. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good. ” (4:20) The character of the conjugal relationship may be judged from the direction of the Holy Prophet: “When you come together, supplicate: ‘O Allah, safeguard us against Satan, and keep Satan away from such issue as Thou might bestow upon us’. ” As has been mentioned, the Holy Quran describes husband and wife as garments for each other (2:188); that is to say, a means of security, dignity and ornament. The whole subject of conjugal relationship is treated in Islam at the elevated level of moral and spiritual consciousness, which excludes all ideas of mere carnal indulgence. This is well illustrated by the following set of directions and exhortations: “They ask thee, O Prophet, as to consorting with their wives during their monthly courses. Tell them: it is harmful, so keep away from them during their monthly courses and do not con sort