Understanding Islam — Page 139
137 It should be clear then that the Islamic injunction of prohibiting alcohol is an extremely significant step in curtailing and preventing domestic abuse. This is a reality often ignored by critics of Islamic teachings. The basis for the allegation that Islam sanctions the beating of wives is sought to be invoked on the basis of the following verse of the Holy Quran: Men are guardians over women because Allah has made some of them excel others, and because they (men) spend of their wealth. So virtuous women are those who are obedient, and guard the secrets (of their husbands) with Allah’s protection. And as for those on whose part you fear nush ū z , admonish them and leave them alone in their beds, and chastise them (i ḍ rib ū hunna). Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Surely, Allah is High, Great. 17 The salient points in this verse for the reader to be aware of are that a man is permitted three avenues against a wife who behaves in a way that is described in the Holy Quran as nush ū z , which we