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PATH WAY TO PARADISE 56 FAMILY PLANNING AND BIRTH CONTROL The Qur’an advises that there should be a two - year interval between the birth of each child to allow the mother’s body to rejuvenate (see Holy Qur’an, 31:15; 2:234). It also recommends nursing for a two year period to help achieve this. Abortion is forbidd en as a means of birth control, although it is permitted if the life of the mother is in danger. Birth control is prohibited if resorted to for fear of financial strain. Please remember also that the use of birth control to avoid the responsibility of child rearing nullifies one of the primary reasons for marriage. This attitude is opposed to the spir it of Islamic teachings on marriage. POLYGAMY This is a subject that generates more misconceptions about Islam than any other. Islam does allow polygamy, i. e. , having more than one wife at the same time, but you should be aware that it does not encourage it. In fact, Islam is the only religion that li mited this ancient and widespread practice. Previous teachings permitted unlimited and unrestricted polygamy. Islam limits the number of wives allowed to four, and also discourages the practice. Allah says: “But if you feel you many not be able to deal justly between them, then marry only one. ” (Holy Qur’an, 4:4).