Paradise Under Your Feet — Page 176
176 condition are not permitted to sit in the Mosque. Should a woman come to the mosque whilst in her menstruation or a girl accompanies her mother in this condition or the menstruation starts suddenly, in all such scenarios women and girls may not sit in a Mosque at the particular place where Salat is offered. A special space should be designated for such ladies to sit away from the place where Salat is offered. ************* It is very important to remember that when we are in the Mosque and are not performing Salat we should stay quiet and spend this time in reciting Durud. It is not good to talk loudly, make a noise and disturb others during Salat. Personal hygiene is very important during periods. Thus, taking a daily bath or shower, and keeping ourselves clean and our clothes clean is very important. It is mentioned in the Ahadith that Hazrat Ayesha (ra) used to sleep in the same bed with the Holy Prophet (saw), and they used to enjoy all intimacy except sexual activity. Hazrat Ayesha (ra) used to keep separate clothes to wear during her periods. When a boy grows to the age of 12-13, he also goes through a period of change and as a mother or father we need to educate our children about Islamic guidelines and responsibilities. He needs to know that keeping himself clean and taking a shower or bath after a wet dream is important. He should learn self-control and Ghad-e-Basar (restraining one ’ s gaze). Boys should be taught the importance of chastity and be made aware of the results of irresponsible behavior, such as sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy. Islamic Practices Regarding Personal Hygiene Brushing your teeth, taking a shower every morning, using deodorants and removing hair under arms and in the pubic area is