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Chapter 1: The Role of Ahmadi Muslim Mothers 7 wisdom that they can recognize their parents ’ real aims. When parents tell them to be good, be truthful, or be righteous, but they themselves tell lies, waste time and are inclined towards the world, children, though quiet, know, in their hearts that parents are tattling. They prefer the world more than their faith. On the other hand, if parents have a deep love for their faith, even if they are quiet, they leave a favorable impression on their children. ” 1. 7 Thus, mothers have the important task of setting a good example, which may seem difficult at times. However, mothers should always remember that when Allah Almighty assigned this very arduous task to them, He also bestowed on them the opportunity to improve and reform themselves. When a mother strives to overcome her weaknesses, change her behavior and habits, and make progress in her spiritual life, the changes she makes will save her children. In addition, this teaches children the importance of striving to improve oneself for the sake of Allah Almighty and the benefit of those around them. MEETING CHALLENGES Every generation of mothers faces challenges in raising children and every generation feels that their challenges are greater than those of the generation before. There are the daily life challenges; sleepless nights nursing babies, toddlers refusing to eat, sibling rivalry, messy rooms, missing homework, uncommunicative or rebellious teenagers etc. , etc. Then there are the challenges presented by the society in which the children spend most of their time: peer pressure, social media, cell phones, un-Islamic customs, immorality, alcohol and drug abuse. Ahmadi Muslim mothers, in addition, have the challenge of raising their children to love and obey Allah Almighty, offer Salat regularly and follow the commands of the Holy Qur ’ an.