Islamic Teachings on Ideal Family Life — Page 25
~ 25 ~ himself must undertake all these obligations. This is why there is no need of any guardian for the man. But women are dependent upon the men. They need someone else to take this responsibility to help them in the circumstances when she needs any help, such as, when husband does not discharge his responsibilities effectively. This is why there must be a guardian for the bride for marriage. If the bridegroom is not mature, that is, has not reached adulthood, then there must be someone to be his representative or guardian to give consent for taking the responsibilities related to the bridegroom. Announcement of Marriage (Nik āḥ Ceremony) Nik āḥ is the official announcement of the marriage, which is attended by the bridegroom or his representative and the guardian of the bride, along with the relatives and friends of both the parties. The announcement of Nik āḥ in public is essential. A short sermon is delivered by the Im ā m (officiating clergy) or an officiating person related to the marriage, and at the end of the sermon, Im ā m gets the authorization from the bride’s guardian and bridegroom to announce the marriage. After the announcement the couple becomes legitimately husband and wife. The announcement of Nik āḥ in public is a must, and at least in the presence of two witnesses. Holy Prophet Mu ḥ ammad (peace and blessings of All ā h be upon him) said on the occasion of one Nik āḥ ,