Islamic Teachings on Ideal Family Life — Page 28
~ 28 ~ is not allowed. All such activities should be conducted with minimal formality. 6. Gifts at weddings are voluntary and optional. This practice should be kept as is. The practice of gift- registry is not allowed as it creates a sense of obligation to subscribe. In the sad and unfortunate event that the above guidelines are not adhered to, the responsible A ḥ madi Muslims should respectfully excuse themselves from such ceremonies without unnecessarily embarrassing themselves or their hosts, and without making a scene.