Hazrat Amman Jan - An Inspiration for Us All — Page 59
59 Hadrat Amman Jan's ra Relationship with Her Daughters - in - Law A mother - in - law's relationship with her daughter - in - law is always a delicate bond to preserve. Yet , Hadrat Amman Jan ra succeeded in maintaining and strengthening these family ties. She achieved this because her behaviour was consistently kind and sincere. Also, she treated her daughters - in - law like her own biological daughters. Hadrat Amman Jan ra did her personal household jobs and chores herself or with her household helpers, so she did not burden herself upon her daughter s - in - law. Because of her loving attitude and sincerity towards them they also regarded her highly, like a real mother. “ Hadrat Umme Nasir ra ”44 relates that she was only 10 years old when she came as a daughter - in - law to Hadrat Amman Jan's ra house. Because of her young age, she had the blessing and reward of being raised t enderly as a daughter under Hadrat Amman Jan's ra care. She reminisces that when she arrived Hadrat Amman Jan ra let her sleep with her for three days, realising that she was a young girl who would be sad to have left her home and apprehensive in a new hou sehold. Hadrat Umme Nasir ra relates that she felt that Hadrat Amman Jan ra gave her more love than even her own mother. One night she woke up to find herself clenching Hadrat Amman Jan ra and sobbing. Hadrat Amman Jan ra comforted her and Hadrat Umme Nasir ra recollects that she soon forgot her actual family and mother, encompassed by Hadrat Amman Jan 's ra love. She relates that for her the experience of marriage was as serene as if she had left the lap of one mother to be taken into the lap of another. 44 Sayyedah Mahmuda Begum Sahibah was the first wife of Hadrat Khalifatul Masih II.