Garments for Each Other — Page 75
75 acts upon the commandments of Allah to gain His pleasure, He will always reward him abundantly. Boys who come from Asian countries like Pakistan and divorce their wives after a few days of marriage saying they do not like their wives, and those boys who bring wives from these countries and then divorce them right away, make a petty excuse that they just do not like them. They say, “We only got married with them because our parents forced us to do so. ” These boys should analyze themselves. As I said these boys who create these problems are of two types. One type of boy lives in the Western countries and brings his wife from an Asian country and then assesses whether there is compatibility. Under the influence of the society, they assume that if there is compatibility between them then they will continue this relationship; otherwise they will kick the girls out of their homes. Such boys do not register their marriages after Nikah in those countries, so that they are not liable for giving any legal protection to the girls and nobody can take any legal action against them. Their actions show that they have no right to remain in this Jama’at and that even their parents are equally involved in these matters. However, the Jama’at protects those girls. The other type of boy comes from outside the country (UK), marries a girl and tries to register their marriage immediately. Once the marriage is registered and they get the visa, they begin to find weaknesses in their wives and divorce them. Then they remarry with their own choice. So, both types of boy deviate from the path of Taqwa or righteousness. These boys should not be unjust to their own souls. They should not tarnish the image of the Jama’at. They should adhere to righteousness and follow Taqwa. Allah Almighty says that those who commit such injustice should always remember that there is a greater power above them who is most Dominant.