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24 removes from them their burden and the shackles that were upon them. So those who shall believe in him, and honor and support him, and help him, and follow the light that has been sent down with him — these shall prosper. ” 1 Every nation and every culture has a set of traditions, which they follow to celebrate their joyous occasions, including weddings. Whether they are Christian, Muslim or any other religion, they celebrate their joyous occasions according to their own ethnic or tribal traditions. Many religions have actually incorporated these traditions into their religious practices. Wherever you go, particularly in Christian societies, you can see that ethnic customs have been incorporated into religion. There are very few who completely ignore these traditions. Islam is a complete religion; it does allow some expression of happiness on these occasions. For example, according to one narration, once Hazrat A’isha (ra) prepared a bride for an Ansari (native of Medina). The Holy Prophet (saw) asked her why she had not organized for songs to be sung as the Ansaris have a liking for songs. On another occasion, he said that the Nikah (announcement of marriage) should be announced in a pleasing manner and the tambourine played. But even with this, there are clear guidelines, as the Holy Prophet (saw) did not say that one is free to do anything one wished. Songs should be limited to a modest level of singing in a modest environment. These songs should have pure and wholesome lyrics. On one occasion the Holy Prophet (saw) himself expressed joy by putting some words together like this: “We come to you, we come to you, welcome us!” So, it is incorrect to think that one can do anything, right or wrong, on the occasion of weddings and that there is no harm in it. Sometimes rude and vulgar songs that are embarrassing to the listener are played at weddings in our countries. The language of