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185 cause for concern for me and this is because the rate of خلع khula is going up in the Jama ’ at and خلع khula is initiated by the woman. As I said t he situation in Germany is also regrettable. ’ Huzoor e Anwer added: ‘Although divorce and خلع khula are permitted in Islam but the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) said Allah the Exalted dislikes it intensely and it is abhorrent. (Sunan Abi Dawood, Kitabu Talaq, Babu Fi karahiyate talaq, Hadeeth number 2178) The dignity of a true believing man and a true believing woman is that if due to some constraints they have to deal with these matters they should do so with fairness and with fear o f God in their hearts and they should speak the truth and never let go of truth because the dignity of a true believer is in never telling lies. ’ (Address to ladies delivered on 25 June 2011 at Jalsa Salana Germany) Ad vising the concealing of each other’s faults in instances of divorce or khula Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be his Helper) said: ‘Many marital conflicts come before the Jama’at in the Qadha Board (committee which resolves disputes between members of Jama’at in light of Islamic doctrine). These rela te to خلع khula or