Domestic Issues and Their Solutions — Page 98
9 8 ‘…Some men are so cruel that they make extremely foul allegations and disgra ce their wive s. Sometimes women also act in this way but because men have more resources available to them and have more power and are more conversant with the outside world, they make greater use of this. However, they should remember that in their presumption they ma y be availing of the situation, yet they are preparing fire for themselves. They should have some fear and abandon these practices. Some are so far gone in cruelty that they flee with the children to other countries, and are still known as Ahmadis. The mot her is left screaming and wailing while they make wrong accusations against the mother and depr ive her of her children despite the fact that we have ascertained that the Holy Qur’an states wrongful allegations should not be made in order to gain benefits. What is worse is that such men are helped by all their relatives. The Jama’at should take immediate steps against such men and against all the relatives who aid them and the Jama’at should recommend disciplinary action against them. Observe what the Qurani c teaching is and what the conduct of such people is! It is regrettable that sometimes some office - holders help such men and righteousness is not practised by anyone involved. The allegations, children having to give statements, the mother being criticise d in front of the children in an extremely inappropriate way, all this ruins the children’s sense of morality. Such men push their children in the fire to feed their own egos. And the sense of honour for faith of some men dies