Domestic Issues and Their Solutions — Page 95
95 Some Causes of Marital Pro blems Levelling Accusations and Ill Treatment of Wives Huzoor e Anwer ( may Allah be his Helper) elucidated marital problems and their solutions in his Friday sermon of 10 November 2006. Following are some extracts from the sermon. Huzoor e Anwer said: ‘Complaints regarding marital conflicts are on the increase again. At times extremely coarse and heinous matters are brought to attention in which allegations are made against each other or women are severely mistreated by the husbands or the in - laws. If it were not for the grace of Allah and His commandment ذَکِر [So go on rem inding; surely, reminding is profitable. 87:10] there would be great despondence and one would leave these offenders to their own devices for they exceed all limits!’ Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be his Helper) said regarding such people: ‘ Because righteousnes s is not being followed and there is no fear of God, therefore sometimes swayed by what others say or influenced by their surroundings men make dreadful allegations against their wives, perhaps in pursuit of second marriage, a quest that sometimes develops in some people and they most casually make allegations against the first wife. If someone is keen on second marriage, if the