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221 there t hat may create any dislike or doubt in the hearts of your in - laws and may become a means of disgracing you and your parents. Thus, one should never interfere in the matters of the in - laws – let their matters be – neither should one speak to the husband abo ut the sister s - in - law or mother - in - law in a remonstrative way. As I mentioned earlier , Hazrat Nawab Mubarakah Begum Sahiba, who was the eldest daughter of the Promised Messiah (on whom be peace), she has also related the advice of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I (may Allah be pleased with him), who would counsel her and other young girls with this advice as well. And I believe that this advice and putting it in practice is more important today than it ever was. Twelve and thirteen year old girls, who are entering into their youth, should certainly say this prayer. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I (may Allah be pleased with him) often said to her [Hazrat Nawab Mubarakah Begum Sahiba] , ‘look, there is no shame in front of Allah the Exalted. Indeed, you are young, but you s hould keep on praying to God that He gives you a pious and blessed matrimonial match. ’ (Annual Ijtema Lajna Ima’illah UK 4 October 2009. Published in Al Fazl International 18 December 2009)