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106 that even i f you have given heaps of wealth to your wife, do not take it back let alone rob the wife’s property and take possession of what is hers. ’ (Friday sermon delivered on 10 November 2006 at Baitul Futuh, London. Published Al Fazl International 1 December 20 06) Explaining the significance of keeping righteousness in view when arranging m arriages Huzoor e Anwer (may Allah be pleased with him) said in one of his Friday sermons: ‘Recently someone wrote to me that his matrimonial match could not be arranged, the D irectorate of Rishta Nata in Pakistan did not cooperate with him. When I asked for a report it was found out that many matrimonial matches were suggested to him but were not liked for the reason that the young man said the match should be arranged on his c onditions. His educational qualification is basic Matric, but his condition was that the young woman should be educated with a master’s degree and should be in employment. The woman should be earning and he wanted to be gifted a house at marriage as well a s 100,000 to 200,000 in cash. He wanted his wife to support him and not only that, he did not want to be told to go out to work by his in - laws or the wife. He said it was up to him if and when he worked. A person like this can only be termed as having ment al health issues. Rishta nata department should not pay attention to su ch proposals and such young men. I do not know why th ey kept sending him proposals,